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Converting From Friends Only

Switching out of Friends Only [most of the time.] It's not needed anymore since... well, times have changed! Doesn't mean that Friends status isn't important to me, it is, it always will be :) You can talk to me by messaging me through my LJ mailbox to become a Friend, if you're not, already [it's at the top of of my Profile page]. But to get access to my J, well, almost always not necessary because you'll have it now.

I am a total LJ newbie as of August 2007 [thanks to Kiota.] It's Feb 12, 2008, this day, and I'm not quite so wet behind the ears now. Hopefully.

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simpyme_ca
Apr. 29th, 2008 11:38 pm (UTC)
Please add
Please add me.. following from Ki journal
summyre
May. 5th, 2008 01:03 am (UTC)
heyya. friending you, here from ki's journal (as above).


if you have the banner graphic just upload it to photobucket or tinypic or something and use < img src= >
i doubt the lj maintenance people can tell you much more than that.
silverplate88
May. 5th, 2008 02:59 am (UTC)
Thanks, Sum., you've just told me more than they ever did!
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verysecretmail
May. 6th, 2008 10:44 pm (UTC)
please add me to i knew KI
naatz
Jun. 13th, 2008 06:07 pm (UTC)
Hi.
I've only recently learnt of Anna's death, and from what I've found out, you were rather close to her at the end {geographically and emotionally}.

Is it okay to friend you? Would it be rude to ask you to friend me back? I feel that I need to know about her at the end, and you're the only link I've found.

|Meduza|
silverplate88
Jun. 14th, 2008 12:47 am (UTC)
No, Neta, it's not rude at all. I'm going to friend you right now and I want you to feel free to ask me anything you want to....try my best to answer! ... I know at one time you two were quite close :)
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cruciatus_x
Jun. 18th, 2008 11:22 pm (UTC)
Kiota's livejournal was suspended. is there anything we can do about it? :S
silverplate88
Jun. 18th, 2008 11:27 pm (UTC)
Yeah, cru, I just found it out, while I was on, a line appeared through her name. For users who were NOT on, apparently, her name just simply disappeared from their f-lists.

I got an error message flashed up on my screen: Account Suspended, and the words "temporarily suspended" were all I could read.

My first move is to ask for more information from LJ, that's tough, don't quite know where to start....except that in her October 2005 suicide attempts I got a real fast response from LJ Abuse...guess I'll try there first.
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silverplate88
Jun. 18th, 2008 11:40 pm (UTC)
where did she go?
kk Cru, what i just did is send a query to accounts@livejournal.com in the form of a reply to their acknowledgement of my payment to extend her account till June 2009.

I don't know if that is a monitored inbox or an automatic one, but when I hear anything I'll post about it. *hopes that this 'temporarily suspended' stuff really means temporary....

A couple of hours ago I posted about who owns the rights [legally] to all her writing and photos, and maybe that has something to do with the plug being pulled now. Hoping not, it was so quick ....
silverplate88
Jun. 19th, 2008 03:13 am (UTC)
Well, we're about 3.5 hours into the suspension and I haven't heard anything on my requests for information. As soon as I find out I will post here, for everybody.

LifeWithLogan has suggested that LJ ought to be notified that Kiota has died and should come under their memorial-journal status. I guess nobody has ever done that? So I'll go do that also, right now.
redacted
Jun. 19th, 2008 06:55 am (UTC)
Wow, I just noticed that she'd been suspended and thought I'd ask you if you knew anything. Unfortunately the only thing I have to offer is not very encouraging - a friend of mine (fka popartagenda was suspended about a week ago for shaky, unspecific reasons and LJ would not give her her account back (and it had been paid until x date in the future.) Inquiries from friends were met only with a blanket statement about confidentiality. She's back under a new name, but all her writing and pictures from her old journal were lost.

Obviously circumstances are a bit different for kiota...

I did not mean this to be so discouraging. It does seem odd and out of the blue... Good luck with all your efforts. I don't know if anyone has said this to you outright but I think it's really amazing how much you are doing to honor her memory and make sure she lives on through her writing and influence.
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silverplate88
Jun. 19th, 2008 04:58 pm (UTC)
reason for suspension
this came in about an hour ago from LJ Abuse, just picked it up now:

"Kiota's journal was suspended at the request of her family. we are required to grant the wishes of family members in cases like these."

I answered with thanks for the explanation and with hopes that they will find some solace and healing there, just as we have.
moonshined
Apr. 1st, 2009 03:02 pm (UTC)
hi, please could i add you? i had been speaking to anna for about 4 years. as you know it is coming up to 1 year since she took her life, and i'm not coping too well about it, and think i would benefit from reading your posts. is that okay?
charlotte.
silverplate88
Apr. 2nd, 2009 01:04 pm (UTC)
Hi, Charlotte, of course you can. I've just added you. My entries are all public these days but please go back into my archive and read anything and everything you wish that's Friends-Only... since you are now welcomed! ~Brad

Edited at 2009-04-02 01:05 pm (UTC)
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missingnothing
Aug. 26th, 2011 02:37 pm (UTC)
Thinking of you friend. Hope you're well. <3
silverplate88
Oct. 16th, 2011 11:29 am (UTC)
hi again
Alicia -- just catching up to this now, from August 26, so you see how often I get back here! I'm well kindasorta, still traveling in Holland, but atm with some knee-joint pains and fallout from nerve damage in my neck. All of that is still manageable, though!

Hope things will work out with Mark... but *you* come first, you shouldn't need to have to confront his wall keeping you out, when you deserve so much more...

Please keep me posted, kk?

<3 Brad
cahier_vide
Nov. 3rd, 2012 02:43 pm (UTC)
Please add me? I was Anna's friend.
silverplate88
Nov. 9th, 2012 02:26 pm (UTC)
Done!

Yes, I remember your support and comments for Ki. It wasn't that long ago, was it...

I don't post much anymore but you're welcome to poke around in and read my archives.

And I'm sure you still *are* a friend... of her living legacy.

In case you haven't happened to run across it yet, there's a celebratory LJ account for her, also with her Username KIOTA, set up by another mutual Friend who bought the rights to use her name for memorial purposes. It has a bunch of great links.
bella_kitten
Mar. 23rd, 2013 04:21 am (UTC)
Been a while, but happy birthday. :)
silverplate88
Mar. 26th, 2013 03:15 pm (UTC)
birthdays
Thanks for your birthday wish, Kitten -- I owe you more than one in return! Acutally it's three days later now and I'm still celebrating. Yum :)

~Brad
fallintheblinks
Apr. 4th, 2014 11:00 pm (UTC)
Hi Brad. I thought of you recently (a certain someone always taps me on the shoulder this time of year, that must be it) and I've been reading back in your journal these past few days. You're a good soul and I hope that you're well and happy and just as joyously enveloped in life's adventures as usual. Regards. <3
silverplate88
Apr. 14th, 2014 03:00 pm (UTC)
Thanks, Whitney, I've been running across your name (rather constantly!!) as I've been reading through Ki's writing and my notes of our four days together on her campus. I'm happy and joyful but that's when I don't think of my health problems, one being cancer, another being knee-joint degeneration.

Usually getting out to watch a play cures my attention, puts it where it should be!

Just posted a note in your LJ.

Ki certainly still welcomes us to her table, no?

*hugs* <3 Brad
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